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Many young women are just looking for the next best thing. A guy with more money, a guy who is better looking, a guy who is higher up on the social ladder etc. Basically their early years are filled with insecurities so the better they see the guy being than the next guy the better their self-worth. As they get older they still look for the security first and foremost but after that they want a friend someone that they can communicate with, someone that makes them laugh, someone they can trust, someone they know has their best interest at heart.

Older women who cheat generally are unhappy in their relationship because one of the main ingredients of happiness are missing or they are still very insecure and any man desiring them makes them feel better about themselves.