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Originally Posted by Derek
I definitely feel like that. It seems like it's a hassle to everyone else just to hear me speak out about things. It seems that every nice thing I do for someone is just swept under the rug (especially with my girlfriend) and whenever I seem to mess up I am chastised to no end. She stayed up all night talking to the guy she fucked before we were together and I'm the bad guy because I felt uncomfortable with that. She never puts herself in my shoes really, she twists it around so it's fine for her to do things but not me.
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I've been in a situation similar to this. My gf and her ex (they had been dating for nearly as long as I've been with her, and she lost her virginity to him) used to hang out every so often, and I was very uneasy about it (not being ignorant to his obvious intentions, despite her assurance of "just friends").
Eventually I found out that he had offered her 5 hits of acid to fuck him. Thankfully, she declined. But, I now had evidence that this was more than "just a friendship" to him.
So I threatened to kick his ass if I ever saw him in real life (I'm honestly not much of a fighter, but it's amazing how threatening I can be if I really want to), and boldly told my girlfriend that either she was done with him, or I was done with her.
It worked.
My advice: Don't kill yourself man, that shit's for pussies. Just tell your girlfriend what's up. If she doesn't like it. DUMP HER. She should come crawling back, and if you actually want her back - you'll have her eating out of the palm of your hand, and your cock too.