greed? denial? the desire to look more interesting and open minded?

I'm not judgemental but it looks like some people complicate their lives more than making it easy for themselves.

all the bi people i've met in real life were just doing it so that people would think they were exciting and "out there". personally i can't think of anything more dull.

People who have 'pretend' sexualities are a nightmare.There is nothing better than being confidently straight or gay folks.

I admire people who opt for shag buddies who go on to become their friends.They are generally the happiest and more sexually relaxed people i know.Imagine:
Monday-Tom
Tuesday-Jim
etc etc

yeah, but people who do it are lame and don't realise this

keep dreaming, marras

but if wednesday/whoever falls in love with you what happens?

HHAHA!I wasn't thinking about you at all toilet.It was the first name that came up to my mind.Happy to keep on dreaming............

Dump them then.

I had a lot of them as an adolescent and pre-adolescent, but only once in my adult life.
Sexuality is more of a continuum for me, and I would say that I am less "bisexual" than simply open to a wide variety of experiences. I overwhelmingly prefer the ladies.

how does that work within a marriage?

It's mostly theoretical at this point.

You could read any sort of perverted meaning into the sentence above.

Go ahead. I can't control people's thoughts.

so i guess the friendship bond should not be that deep...

Are animals to be involved?

Well,the boundaries would have been stretched a bit by then........

Hey, it's your twisted mind we're talking about here; you make the call. I have nothing to do with it once your imagination gets going.

What's all this gagging about?