Yup, paranoia fucked up my last relationship. Did that exact thing, let my paranoia create a problem that wasn't there.

well, paranoia, to quote Mrs. K. Bigelow, is just reality on a finer scale.
that said, things can get outta hand. the third weel suggestion makes sense. thing is, i know what it feels like when shit like that happens. i suffered something similar when my ex got together with a friend of hers, and in the end it showed up the ugly side of both of us.

try your best to stay calm and see what goes on.
wish you luck man...

eh...the wife is glued to her phone. her best friend is a guy. whatever. that's not to say that I never get paranoid, but I'm not the kind of guy to tell her who to talk to.

I hope this helps.

kick his head in

you know... girls and guys can be friends. i prefer guys. i have always preferred guys, but i always have to have a good girl friend. you'll push her away if she's not up to anything. i do find it weird she waits for you to leave to hang out with him, but maybe she just has nothing better to do?

i.e.... i was in a room full of dudes when i met floating. i was that way before... i'll always be that way. i'm not up to shit.

this is not true.

you were in a room with my friend and his lesbian sister!

no. remember when brad called you some name?

this is starting to look like a sitcom, dudes and dudettes.

all i know is i had some troubles with my ex guitar player in an old band who was the one who introduced me to my ex girl. whenever this guy met her, my ex changed attitude real bad. without proper notice.

that ended up being the signal that not everything was really smooth within our relationship. turned out to be true.

i usually get along better with guys than with girls. i don't know why, i do behave pretty girly most of the time, but it's just like that. too bad those guy friends often fall in love with me.

uh uh.

no hard feelings, but that is the kind of girl i always despised with a passion.
have a nice day!

does it mean you despise the girl because the guys fall in love with her? you're sexist, then.

really, what the hell IS max going on about? despising which kind of girl for what?? :confused:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zEZ87pCBUmM

??

Agreed, I ended up kicking his head in and his ex married her own daughter.
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is it me or did a bunch of posts disappeared?

You got a lotta nerve to play me
Another gay rapper..
Bustin caps at Jay-Z.. and still avoid capture
While y'all caught up in the rapture
Still after me I'm in Jamaica sippin' daqueries..
No doubt

Well, if you qualify as a dude, which is likely a matter of programming, and your friend is/was a dude, and his lesbian sister was of the butch persuasion, and the room was relatively small, then you can both be right!

I should be a relationship therapist.

am I? ok. if you say so, it must be true.

nah dude, actually, I just despise the way shit happens, and she goes out like that. "sadly everyone falls in love with me. oh, i'm a star".

cool.
not.

Inhuman, I am sympathizing with you right now. I just lost a chance to get a job I was really looking forward to. :(

Too bad for you , or for them?

Why are you insinuating that just because a girl is aware of some guys falling head over heels for her it automatically means that they want the attention? That's sexist.